Sticking a soother in a toddler's mouth?

ugh, i hate seeing 2-3 year old kids with binkys!!! to me, no offense to anyone here, it shows a sign of laziness in the parents, how do people expect their kids to be able to talk and have normal straight teeth if they have a damn binky in their mouth all the time?!?!!? i did honestly try a binky with my son, he would have none of it! he had reflux and a ton of allergies to formulas, so i thought it would help, he hated it lol good thing though he made me hate them too, i have this same problem with my neice her momma would rather shve this thing in her 2 1/2 yr olds mouth than to deal with her, i cannot stand it, but hey what do we do? we have to be quiet or itll start a big ol fa,ily fued...lazy parents......